Never Losing the Hope

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The arabic word for sadness or grief is “Gham” – derived from the word “Ghaamama (the cloud) “. Although there’s no apparent relationship between sadness and cloud, there is a hidden one.  Just like how a cloud blocks away sunshine from lighting up the earth, sadness/grief also acts as a stumbling block, hindering man’s positive energy and performance.

Just like a cloud blocks all the sun-shine coming down to the earth, sadness or grief, one way or another, also acts as a stumbling block for a man’s positive energy and performance.

It is very natural that when a person is happy and everything is going according to his whims and desires and his own wishful thinking, his performance is at it’s peak, but when he is tested or a calamity strikes him, he becomes pessimistic and isn’t able to give a good performance.

The real test lies in giving a good performance despite being in stress and crisis, despite failing in exams over and over again, despite having a fight with the fellow colleague or losing a loved one.

Once a man develops this quality, he becomes distinguished from other humans who moan over all their problems and waste all the time. It makes a person a true leader.

The Prophet  said: “When Allah desires good for someone, He tries him with hardships.” 1

Prophet Muhammad  said: “Whatever befalls a Muslim of exhaustion, illness, worry, grief, nuisance or trouble, even though it may be no more than a prick of a thorn, earns him forgiveness by Allah of some of his sins.” 2

A Muslim may be tested by all sorts of difficulties like sickness, lack of income, disobedience from his children, etc. In fact, the many afflictions that may beset a person are incalculable. This is the point that the Prophet  was stressing upon, when he mentioned: “Fatigue, illness, anxiety, sorrow, harm or sadness …even to the extent of a thorn pricking him”.

All of these afflictions, if endured patiently by the believer, are a means of attaining Allah’s forgiveness as well as His reward. Every one of us is being tested by Allah. He tests us all in different ways. We should not blindly assume that the difficulties we face in life are punishments or signs that Allah is displeased with us. Likewise, we should never construe the success and pleasures that others enjoy as signs that Allah is pleased with them or that they are privileged. Sometimes, the opposite could be true.

Sadness should never make us give up on our dreams, our vision and our true moral values we stand upon. It should never make us diminish our will-power and hope. The examples of the lives of various Prophets mentioned in the Glorious Quran give us several lessons to sustain our vision despite being in a crisis.

Prophet Muhammad  said: “The prophets were the most severely tested of people.” 3

Noah was teased the most, yet he kept on preaching for 950 years. Ibrahim  was thrown into the fire but it never shattered him. Yousaf  was sold as a slave, sent to jail for years even though he was innocent, but it didn’t change his moral values and ethics that he stood upon (unlike innocent prisoners today who become revengeful towards society after they are freed).

The last and the final Messenger of Allah  himself had to see a lot in his life: from the loss of his beloved uncle to the loss of his baby son Ibrahim, from individual persecutions to social boycott. But it never made him weak, rather, it made him a more powerful and better leader.

Sickness, weakness, and poverty are among the common trials of life, but a discerning mind can often find wisdom in their existence. The life of this world should not be considered in isolation.

No assessment of life will be balanced unless it is considered in connection with the Hereafter – with the fact that our ultimate return is to our Lord.

This is what gives contentment and composure to the believer’s heart, and acceptance of what must be endured in life. It is only this consideration that provides a balanced view of life, and through which, much wisdom of what takes place in the world becomes evident.

  1. Sahîh al-Bukhârî
  2.  Sahīh al-Bukhārī
  3.  Sunan al-Tirmidhī (2397) andSunan Ibn Mājah (4023, 4024)
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